A Letter from a child…..

Hey everyone, it’s been very long since I have posted my first blog post. hope you all are doing fine. I’m back with my second post.😁😁😁

This post is all about ” THE PRESENT” because ” THE PRESENT IS THE GREATEST PRESENT FROM THE GOD”.

Parents are so protective over their children and so much concerned about their future. They always search for the best of the best things to their children. Some people raise their daughter and son as princess and prince. some raise them like a normal kid, make them learn about the reality of the world. they shortly preparing them for their future apparently. WHATEVER PARENTS DO, IS ALL CONCERN ABOUT THEIR CHILDREN FUTURE.

‘THE PRESENT” do parents really care about the present life of children? My answer to this question is ” BIG NO”. most of the parents forget about their children’s present life.

To make their children’s lives better and best in terms of financial, they need to earn money. They run after money, they earn it, they save it for their children and lastly they will be very happy about their task of giving a better life to their children.

Economically and financially they might be succeed. but as a parent they fail to give attention to their child, they fail to give little happiness to their child. constantly running after the money they forget the fact that their children are growing without them emotionally.

The present life is very important because the life they are living now is what sculpture them into the person they become in the future. For happiest life parent need to be there in their children’s life. when you(parents) run after money then the happiness, creativeness, joyousness, of your kid will be inversely proportional. all people need money to live a better life but parents ought to stop their run and rush after money and give some attention to children. study shows that the children who get attention from parents are good at building self-confidence and are more strong mentally.

Take a time to think , This would have happened definitely in all the houses. when a toddler comes to you and manages to form a sentence of 4 to 5 words and starts speak to you, it shows the growth of the child and the thinking ability is improving as well. But as far as I have noticed parents won’t listen to them, they engage in household works or office works. very busy with their daily routine works and forgets to have even a normal talk to their children and also they won’t listen as well which will affect the children’s communication skills. please look into the below link. https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2018/02/how-you-talk-to-your-child-changes-their-brain/

spare at least little time to spend with your little child in your busy money marathon.

when its come for teenagers parents will shut their children’s mouth by simply saying don’t utter a single word we know you better than you do and we know what you need and what you want. for the love of god., parents should give up that attitude and they should talk to their daughter or son about how they feel or what they need and importantly they should listen to them. teenage period is a very cruel period and they should handle it very subtly. parents should accept the fact that “I DON’T KNOW EVERYTHING”. because we are all normal human beings and we are not immune to mistakes. parents and their daughter or son have to get along very well then only the gap between them will be reduced. sit with them and talk with them about their problems. never let them be alone. its leads to depression and social anxiety. When they do anything wrong, tell them politely instead of scolding them, they will surely understand. never scold them with hurting words, it will trash their faith,believes.

Travel with your children, it helps to build confidence and helps to get rid of social anxiety. traveling is one of the best ways to improve and build confidence.

You are doing all these things out of love .But that love should not suffocate them. Beside your money your child needs your attention,love,affection,little time of your’s.Give these precious things to your child. These are greatest things u can give to your child that don’t cost you anything.

-Keerthana(kiki)